the key to becoming very demure very mindful is right here if we want to be cutesy and considerate here are the steps that we need to really pay attention to the first step is being Mindful and considerate about people why am I saying this this links back to the way that you feel about yourself because because when you see the light within yourself you are 10 times more likely to Only See the Light only see the good in other people so we want to be considerate we want to act from a place of self-love and that can only come from putting ourselves together really embracing ourselves our insecurities becoming the most competent person in the room and we've talked about this in this video I'm going to link it so that we can learn how to become the most competent person in the room and feel like we own a room the second thing when it comes to becoming very demure very mindful is that the way that you speak about yourself and the way that you speak about honors reflects back just like a mirror the way that you feel about yourself reflects back in every single relationship of yours and that is completely true because when we are up ating from a sense of abundance from a place of kindness we tend to see the good in people we tend to be more open to be more loving to be more compassionate on the contrary when we feel like we are operating from a lack mindset we are less likely to think like that and to behave like that we're less likely to be very demure very Mindful and we want to be demure Mindful and considerate the third thing when it comes to becoming cutesy considerate very demure very mindful is becoming self-aware and self self awareness means that you realize that no one is ever perfect that everyone is on their own journey and that is completely fine we are here to learn we are here to grow we are here to improve ourselves and to give our best every single day and so if we are striving for the best every single day we've already won we are already mindful very considerate the fourth step or tip on how to become very demure very mindful is that becoming demure means that you put yourself together even on days when you don't feel like it and you present yourself in the best light because you should always speak highly about yourself and this Lings back to creating an alter ego for yourself when you are on the road of self-improvement self-development when you are in point a and you want to reach point B which is becoming the person of your dreams the key to that is literally faith and trust and acting as the person who already is there and this is not faking it till you make it this is incorporating those mindsets those habits those behaviors that will turn you into becoming a very demure very mindful person and that means that you are acting you are not reacting you are acting like the person that you want to become and you already are that person that you dream about every single day you know how that quote goes you're searching for the diamond necklace but the diamond necklace is already on your neck the same goes with you you have so much untapped potential the potential is already within you becoming the mure means that you're competent yet yet you still see the light in others to you still identify talents and potential and goodness and kindness in others too you have a blind faith in yourself and you have a blind faith in that very demure and very mindful person is the person who knows exactly that I know exactly how to do XYZ and I'm going to do it and even if I don't know because sometimes we do not know how to do things we do not know how to learn how to grow even when I don't know I'm still going to make it I'm still going to persist that is very demure very mindful because I want to level up every single day and the last step in becoming very demure very mindful is don't stop being kind just because you've experienced something not a pleasant because you have a light within your soul do not repel it you are literally vibrating on the highest frequency you are talented you have potential start seeing the light within yourself and the world will reflect that back to you 10 times more always stay gracious because because we want to be gracious we want to be very demure very mindful have good manners becoming cutesy and considerate and very Mindful and very demure isn't always about the looks it is also hidden within behaviors mindsets ideas the way that you see others so I want you to become very mindful because this is what we should be striving for I truly hope this video inspired you and becoming very demure very Mindful and I'll see you very very soon sending lots of blessings your way