haven't I seen somewhere that they say if you be aware of anybody's name that starts with a J yes we did that as a hack once yeah J and M I mean that's very stereotypical but the reason I bring that up is Michaela from the back room who's going to come on here now is one of the few staff members that is still single has not found the love that Tanya has found to brag about oh and um we're very excited for that coming up Tony what happened what was that look for because I just noticed three of these guys names start with a j we I just said that just said that I just said is there something about the J I didn't see the names this whole time all right so there's Jake there's Justin there's Jack there's Taylor um but Michaela I guess your question is why do they chat and then vanish yeah they'll ask me a question I mean it's the beginning of a conversation so it's kind of like an easy answer they'll ask me how I'm doing I'll say you know I'm doing good had a great weekend how how are you doing and then nothing what am I doing wrong let's go through these in dissect okay all right I who I'll be who's GNA be Michaela I'll be Jake I'll be Michaela in this one all right who's how' this thing start tell me explain this to me he liked her photo okay soop I liked your photo yeah start a chat with Jake yeah that's the operator that should be Tanya start the chat with Jake that's you Jake oh Jake no oh I'm okay hey how was your Monday been Hey Monday was good I've been visiting my fam with week so it's been been nice how's your week going well there was a typo there typo typo that's fine first impression I mean I type all the time I all right that was Jake here's let's try Taylor here's Taylor okay like Photo start chat with Taylor hello with 5os how are you hey I'm doing good having a chill Monday how's your day going so far by the way brilliant response brilliant love it having a chill day not too much easy going not too interest perfect he says that's good it's been crazy moving my recording studios soon I'm trying to wrap up everything oh nice where are you moving your recording studio to then nothing blank vanish I almost feel like Taylor goodbye that's like too much information Taylor and I don't all the stress if you tell me your life is too crazy next all right let's try Justin all right here's Justin go okay start chat with Justin hey what's your top three favorite places you've traveled to oh this is tough come on Tanya London is one of my favorite places so that number one again typo Paris has recently earned a top spot and probably Italy how about you I love London studied abroad there so it'll be special to me I have to go with Japan and Norway for me and then this is where I think Michaela kind of loses him she does three bubbles like three different conversations in a row and she goes needs to be on one same I studied abroad in London and go back there every year that was the first one and I've been to Tokyo and thought it was one of the coolest places I've ever been to but we'll never go in the summer again way too hot LOL and then here's another one never been to Norway but would love to how's that or how is that and then he leaves the chat is over why why the three different individual bubbles of I just felt like it was too long as one I don't know H I just I mean look it's all to all these guys they're lws but any conversation I'm realizing that starts just starts in general can go the wrong way I mean what is the right way to do it it just has to be the right person not really the right chat right you can't say the wrong thing to the right person that that's true you can't my first conversation my first message on hinge from Robbie was like riddled with misspellings wrote it that's not true that was all I came in and fixed it you fixed it okay the message he sent me was like riddled with grammar and like it was like how are you this weekend like I who missed the stuff and so it's like you can't say the wrong thing to the right person these guys are just not it don't don't lose sleep M did nothing wrong I thought maybe there was something with Justin because you guys both studied abroad in London I thought I know that about you mhm huh how was Paris when'd you go to Paris um last year I went to a wedding in London and then we you just jumped on the train yep Dar and went loved it it's an underwater train in case anybody was wondering how to you get a train