of the three rules do the right thing that's all that that be complicate just do what's right avoid what's wrong rule number two do everything the very best you're building that it may be all American that a may be all call first let everybody can be first team everybody can be the best or capable being and you go through the third stage where we care about each other we understand that everybody you're going to meet in the rest of your life that then going to need a kind word a smile and encourage but that's all part of life that's what we all have