what's the most hurtful thing your parent ever said to you that they regret having me my mother was 16 when she got pregnant by my dad since then she struggled so much delayed her life didn't graduate high school and had to work early to provide for me I grew up with my grandparents most of the time because my mother didn't want me my dad didn't leave my mom when she got pregnant but he was almost absent in my life there was never a day in my life where she reminds me that I am a mistake and that because of me her life was different she could have had this that living her best life eventually my parents made it got work house everything they had my brother at 35 who they dearly loved I never felt or experienced that I was on the verge of leaving this Earth because what is the point of life if the people who brought me here don't want me Christmas birthdays my brother receives everything he wants and even got him a car and me a birthday card from the dollar store and I still take buses I left home and disappeared from the grid it was definitely the best decision I ever made I gave myself a new life I got married and had babies who I love the way I wished I was loved