the bachelorette's Jen Tran calls out Devon Strater for following Maria joras on social media after ending engagement ending the engagement on a phone call and the next day I wake up to you following girls on Instagram not just any girl but Maria joras Jen said Jen Tran is confronting Devon Strater for the first time since he called off their engagement over the phone after receiving the final Rose during the season 21 finale of The Bachelorette which aired on Tuesday September 3rd Devon and Jen broke up the pair sat down together to speak about their relationship and the aftermath of their split on the after the final row special what I can't understand is everything that you did after we've broken our engagement Jen said to Devon before dropping a bombshell about another member of Bachelor Nation ending the engagement on a phone call and the next day I wake up to you following girls on Instagram not just any girl but Maria joras not only is that so disrespectful to everything we had shared together I just don't understand it why you would do something like that she asked him referring to her former castmate on Joey gra day season because it completely invalidated our entire relationship everything that I had felt for you everything that we'd felt for each other obviously I failed you Devon who broke up with Jen in a 15-minute phone call replied and there's nothing I can say other than that but everything I felt for you was real when host Jesse Palmer asked Jen what she wanted wanted her last words to Devon to be she knew exactly what she was going to say to him I hope that you learned that the weight of your words matter and that if you're going to promise something you should be able to fulfill those promises she said I just I simply couldn't have done what you have done in that position and when I love something I nurture it and I value it and I don't throw it away the next day Jen then snapped back asking why Devon went out clubbing in New York City with another one of her suitors Jeremy just hours after their split when Devon claimed he had gone to the city to see a work client Jen asked at the club am I not allowed to live a life he replied adding when we left the show I had a lot of doubts and regretfully and sadly I suppressed those feelings and I did come clean to you about that I can't sit here and just listen to everything you said on that TV show every time you said I love you so much you're the one I want to wake up every day and fight for you Jen said where was the fight when did you try to fight for our relationship I fought later Devon admitted that he fell short of Jen's needs I watched you grow and then I watched myself contribute to your regression he said to her and that hurt that hurt me you you don't deserve to compromise your standards to be happy you weren't ready to fight for love Jen said the woman that stood there was ready to fight for love was ready to give everything into a person was ready to start a family was was ready to loved and understood what it meant to fully love somebody to go through the hard times to go through the Happy Times to go through every single obstacle in life with somebody unwaveringly no matter what Devon then told Jen she was trying to condense this insisting that he had true feelings for her I know that I fell short of a lot of your expectations to the point where you like you said you were doing things that were diminishing who you were he conceited and you can sit here and say I'm a liar this and that I'm not to deny you on any of those things as fans may recall Devon had a rocky start with his castmates from the start of the season but he and Jen hit it off almost immediately at their date in Devon's Hometown his mother encouraged him to express how he was feeling to Jen if you're feeling that way don't hold back Devon's mom said you're not going to be the one if you don't at the end of the day Devon took her advice and told Jen he loved her to which she responded I am falling so hard for you after leaving the fantasy sweets Devon grew discouraged that Jen hadn't told him she loved him yet in the episode leading up to the finale left fans wondering if the two would make it to the end what I really want to hear is she loves me too Devon told the cameras and not the day before I get down on a knee or anything like that I want to know so that I can build on that he explained that he loved her because she appreciated him for who he was but Jen said she was still on the way to being in love days later before the rose ceremony Devon and Jen sat down to discuss his concerns he told her that he felt like the safe option adding proposals are next week and I still don't know where your head's at I don't know how to be maybe what you need me to be Jen replied going on to drop a bombshell I do love you you freaking idiot Devon was the first to get one of the last two roses along with contestant Marcus at the Rose ceremony later that night during the menel all special several of Jen's former suitors pointed out their skepticism of Devon who had received backlash within the house for stealing Jen for one-on-one time during group dates Jen stood up for Devon both during and after the show calling out thomasen for taking time out of his conversations with her to talk about Devon had you kept your focus on me like maybe the journey would have turned out a little bit different for you she told him the bachelorette is now available to stream on Hulu