shut the up one those are four words that I try to just lock in my head and keep from escaping my mouth and two while Chapel Ron's performance and her winning Best New Artist with some of the biggest moments during last night's VMAs it was this showdown between her and a paparazzo on the red carpet that was easily one of the most talked about moments from the night that included those words shut [Applause] up not while it's unclear why the photographer said that Chapel explained to ET a few minutes later this is quite overwhelming and quite scary um I think for someone who gets um a lot of a anxiety around people yelling at you it the the carpet is horrifying yeah and I need to I yelled back I yelled back you don't get to yell at me like that