hello best friend and welcome welcome back to my channel I hope you guys are all having hey girl I hope you guys are all having the most incredible day this is the first time that you're watching my channel my name is Sebastian and I welcome you all with open arms I do pop culture videos every single day so if you're looking for a new messy bestie you have found me so grab a snack and a drink happy Monday by the way girl listen let me tell you something girl I was about to come on here and be like girl Monday A New Beginning you got this leave all the the bad habits on in the past [ __ ] it is Monday and I'm already like listen I didn't do none of that okay I'm going to tell you something don't put so much pressure on yourself okay I just want to tell you that all right if you don't do the the the starting over and the leaving bad habits today then do it tomorrow do it little by little but don't put that pressure on okay all right now changing the subject we got to talk about Selena Gomez now to a more serious subject do you guys know I love to be messy but this is very important Selena Gomez just graced the cover of Vanity Fair and I mean absolutely stunning you guys know she always kills it but one thing that is really really like just I mean I'm just in awe of her is sorry is her way of being so vulnerable so incredibly open with everything she goes through and it is insane to me how strong she is she just recently said she will not be able to carry a baby of her own check this out oh best friend we are starting the week off so strong Selena Gomez is on the cover of Vanity Fair and Girl first of all it's giving booked blessed busy billionaire okay and she looks stunning okay listen you know what girl I'm going to print this and I'm going to put on my vision board [ __ ] because girl looking at that every morning that's just going to make that's like a Red Bull this is like a coffee it's like a Red Bull [ __ ] anyways she was very very like always very real very relatable and very raw in this interview and she talked about something she has never talked about which is unfortunately Selena Gomez won't be able to carry her own baby let's read this she said says I haven't ever said this but I unfortunately can carry my own children I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the babies in Jeopardy that was something I had to grieve for a while um she says it's not necessarily the way I envisioned it she says of becoming a parent one day I thought it would happen the way it happens for everyone but I'm in a much better place with that I find it a blessing that there are wonderful people willing to do surrogacy or adoption which are both huge possibilities for me it made me really thankful for the other outlets for people who are dying to be moms I'm one of those people I'm excited for what that Journey will look like but it'll look a little different at the end of the day I don't care it'll be mine it'll be my baby this is the one thing that I feel like I have said so much it's that Selena Gomez is not afraid to be real to be relatable to be human okay I feel like in the state of the world that we have been in lately we need this we need people with humongous platforms to use their voice for good so it echoes and it reaches people who are going through the same thing and this is why Selena Gomez is so successful because she is not afraid to put her her dark traumas anxieties worries situations out there just so it could help somebody she has said this in the past if her opening up and being real and raw can at least help one person feel less alone than she's done her job and Selena Gomez you literally just reached millions of people and you made I'm sure millions of people who are going through this feel less alone and I'm so proud of you girl anyways best friend what do we think let me know in the comments Below in a world world that we are living in girl where everything has to be so picture [ __ ] perfect and aesthetically pleasing girl I'd rather be a Selena okay anyways girl I'll see you guys on my next Tik Tok don't forget to hit that follow and I love you all so much have a blessed week I I want to applaud her I want to hug her I want to congratulate her because I think what she did today was so human was so real was so raw was so needed so many women go through this in this world daily millions and I feel like someone like Selena Gomez saying what you're going through but with a sense of hope and a sense of it'll be okay there are options I think that is so beautiful I feel like she and I I don't know why it makes me want like to get emotional but I just know how much women go through and when it comes to pregnancy if they do decide to have a baby and if they have any issues I know that it's so hard and all these celebrities all these celebrities that there are maybe a good 5% of them including Selena are so open about their personal struggles and if more celebrities and more public personas would just come out and and say things like this so many people will feel less alone and it pains my heart that not more celebrities use their platform for good but I'm so proud of Selena I'm so thankful that we have Selena that all the women out there who might be unfortunately going through the same situation know that there are options and that you know it's going to be okay and you don't feel so alone and and that makes me so grateful Selena GES is the literal definition of Survivor I mean she really is and Selena Gomez deserves everything she has now she is a billionaire for a reason rare beauty is a huge success for a reason there are Oscar buzzing noises around Emelia perz for a reason only murders in the building is one of the most successful shows in the world for a reason Selena Gomez is light and light attracts light and she is the epitome of what I believe every public Persona celebrity actor singer should strive to be period I love Selena Gomez so much I admire her I am in awe of her and she really inspires me best friend because you know I have my you know our family here and I'm very open about mental health for this exact reason because if I could help one of you feel less alone then I've done my job and that is what Selena has taught me and I feel like Selena can teach us all of this even if you don't have a a platform or social media presence that does not matter you you have a voice and your voice matters your your life matters and if you go and you you know maybe meet somebody who is going through the same thing you are going through and you tell them your story and You're vulnerable with them you might you might have just change their life so I love that this is going to be sort of like a ripple effect okay of good and um I can't wait to see what the future holds for Selena she is so incredibly Brave and and I mean that in the most respectful most amazing way possible and she's such an inspirational light so what do you guys think let me know in the comments below um I did want to tell you guys that I was just on TMZ again um I'm so grateful and thankful for the opportunity I spoke about Jennifer Lopez and it was so much fun and I'm so grateful I let you guys know when it comes out but I really just wanted to say thank you guys because seriously without you guys I really wouldn't have these type of opportunities so I start today off very grateful very thankful and going back to what I said in the beginning don't be hard on yourself you're just human okay we'll start tomorrow tomorrow's a brand new day okay girl and don't beat yourself up I beg you don't do it um for example this weekend was you know my best friend's birthday uh trip when we went to Palm Springs and you know we drank on the first night um not the second or third you know I drank I had a barbecue I ate snacks this and that so I said you know what I want to be a little bit healthier Monday you know so I was like I'm just going to have you know very light food because I kind of want to restart my system you know get back into the groove of things girl I've had pumpkin spiced cookies I've had I mean girl you would have thought that it was like Sunday movie night [ __ ] and I told myself I was like my God Sebastian like seriously you you you promised yourself this and I was saying all these things in my head I was like you know what girl I'll start tomorrow I'm not going to beat myself up and I'm not going to go back into unhealthy habits like I used to so that is why I started this video by saying you know what start tomorrow whatever it is that you maybe didn't do today that you were planning on doing do it tomorrow do it the next day don't be hard on yourself I love you all so much thank you for watching and I'll see you guys in my next video bye