I'm being honest and I think that's just who I am Selena Gomez is opening up for the first time about not being able to have children the 32-year-old Tells Vanity Fair I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the babies in Jeopardy that was something I had to grieve for a while I'm in a better place but I don't know I guess sometimes I can't explain it for sure Selena struggles with lupus and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2020 she says two medications she takes for that made it unlikely she'd be able to carry children but she is open to other Alternatives like cacy or adoption and plans to start a family in the next 3 years but no pressure for boyfriend Benny Blanco who told Howard Stern back in may he could see himself getting down on one knee I'm predicting marriage you and me both you have no room for kids in your life right that's like my next the goal on the box Selena who's the newest member of Hollywood's billionaire club says she's never been loved this way a source tells ET they are in Bliss and excited about what the future holds yeah come on now that makes me feel so good