Megan has been accused of imitating the first black marianist Emma thine who experienced adversity from her own family when she married seen thine VI count weth Emma who is a mixed Trace model with an English socialite mother and a Nigerian oil Baron father married the heir to the long lead estate in 2012 they have two sons together John four and Henry 2 and live in a grand home next to the estate's popular Safari Park Emma acknowledged that her origin became an issue in her life once she got engaged and people wouldn't stop talking about it however she emphasized that race should not define a person despite the Striking similarities in their stories Emma stated that she would never presume to offer advice to Megan implying that the Discrimination Emma faced was different from what Megan experienced Emma has seemingly become a model for Megan as she possesses many things that Megan appears to covet including cookbooks a Lifestyle brand wealth fashion shoots a husband who adores her and more Emma was likely on Megan's radar even before her relationship with Prince Harry as they met at Soho House in 2011 Emma who has Nigerian Heritage is happily married with Children and enjoys a life of wealth Megan on the other hand doesn't share these aspects of Emma's life the marchan of bath serves as evidence that the British royal family is not inherently discriminatory what's interesting is that Emma used a surrogate for a second child due to health issues stemming from a previous pregnancy when she actually carried the baby Emma openly admitted to using a surrogate which removed the child from the line of succession unlike Megan Emma didn't pretend to be pregnant with fake bumps and was candid about her surrogacy if Megan had used surrogates her claims and stories might unravel she might even allege that the British royal family forced her to use a surrogate because they deemed her unworthy of carrying a royal baby or something similar the marchan of bath didn't marry for money or social climbing she brings her own Status International connections and wealth to her husband she has beautiful friends in aristocratic circles such as the Spencer girls Megan on the other hand lacks these attributes and is seen by some as a social climber who brought down her husband Prince Harry