RH o b Erica Jane discovers wasn't real marriage reality my te personality Erica Jane has acknowledged that her 20-year marriage to lawyer Tom gerardi was not real she attempted to move on after their 2020 breakup but she was unaware of the challenges that were ahead she is now talking more about their Union and it was always quite fake for additional information continue reading r h o Erica Jane discovers wasn't real marriage her co-stars were taken aback when Erica Jane initially appeared on rhbh she seemed like she had it all a blonde bombshell in her early 40s she was wealthy a chart topping musician and had Immaculate Elegance in addition her spouse was a prosperous attorney additionally he was 33 years older than her everyone was startled yet it made sense that she could live so extravagantly and pursue her goals without any Financial constraints some questions arose such as why Tom gerardi her husband hadn't read her book and why he wasn't present on the first night of her Broadway debut Erica eventually filed for divorce on Election Day in 2020 believing that the outcome would override her decision to leave Tom no it didn't it everyone was interested then it was revealed that he was practically bankrupt and had stolen from his clients when Erica was linked to it the performer experienced a nightmare she had to start over in both her personal and professional life and now she is opening up about her marriage and the real story behind it all as stated by people on the two t in a pod podcast she talked about how she handled his adultery because she did not want to deal with the turmoil Erica Jane acknowledged that she disregarded a lot of it you start ignoring the snide comments or you start ignoring the fights all you want to do is maintain the status quo I'm not sure if it counts as ignoring it well in certain situations yes when I learned that Tom was seeing other women I undoubtedly turned a blind eye because I didn't want to deal with it the 53-year-old thought the marriage was dismissed in the end that in contrast to what many may think she did love her husband I do believe that there was a lot of disdain at the conclusion of our relationship from both sides because I frequently thought that my marriage wasn't real and was being neglected and although it's impossible for you to adore this man I did in reality tough decisions as she has stated on rhobh Erica Jane spent a lot of time just letting things go after all this was a man who had her back she did however come clean about the adultery and the way he had spoken to and about her viewers watched however how he would patronize and quiet her she packed up her belongings in a day and left the house but many thought she lacked empathy when victims started to feel involved Erica said everything was made up to the judicial branch she is still fighting and has had some successes but she did manage to earn a successful residency in Las Vegas furthermore she is expected to be a valuable addition to Kyle Richards and will be back for season 14 of rhobh do you believe Erica knew when to let go of Tom even though she loved him deeply or was it lying from start to finish tell us in the comments section below