but our family our family the Grody Patinkin family all got together after this most recent horror that we're all living and we felt we wanted to say something as a family and we put this out on our social media and I I don't have it memorized but I want to say what we all constructed as a family our hearts are broken we cannot imagine what it is to live with Terror on our doorstep and the combination of grief and pain and fear and rage when families are callously murdered or taken hostage for Millennia our people have had to flee and had to live with Terror it's not lost on us that the victims of war are every person on either side who simply long for a home and for the sense of safety and belonging that all of us long for war asks us to dehumanize the other so what we're focusing on is the humanity of every woman man and child who didn't ask for this who didn't do this who will not grow old to see their grandchildren grow up as we are able to see ours we stand for peace and believe it is the only path by which we will ever get out of this