Sophia Bush explains Ashlin Harris's reaction when she was asked out Ashlin Harris was caught off guard when Sophia Bush initiated their romantic relationship the former student of One Tree Hill claims that she approached the soccer player after finding out that friends of theirs were attempting to pair the athlete with someone else according to Sophia I was like if she's ready to date she's going on a date with me during the podcast's July 17th episode I'm sorry like uh uh no F kingway really the Chicago PD star also revealed ashlin's response to being asked out she was like hold the phone I always thought you were straight Sophia said and I was like I always thought you were happy but we're both fking single what are we doing the 42-year-old continued we were fking cackling because I was like yeah dude I never looked at you as an option and she was like I never looked at you as an option the