if on the opposite side if I'm viewed differently well that will be because I'm doing something wrong and I'm not aware what I now do is make sure that I'm looking at things through both lenses mhm not a one-sided POV I love that it's not it's not just my perception of what I'm doing and how everybody else should see it yeah and doing that the the way that I try my best to back up the the hope of me being perceived is that is about putting a true work in to be that yeah making sure that I'm really engaged with the other people making sure there's a rapport that there's energy