Neil Patrick Harris and his Husband David burka found love with each other but their love grew even stronger once they welcomed their twins Harper and Gideon the couple met in 2004 but had no expectations of starting a romance with each other Harris told that magazine in 2012 that at the time he wasn't looking to settle down at the time burka was in a challenging long-distance relationship I was in another relationship when I met Neil and was doing the long distance New York to L.A thing it was sort of on the rocks long distance is so hard he recalled Harrison birka began spending time with each other platonically but the professional chef found himself attracted to the actor