not enough in the world for you to get me to say something about that you know wait we're losing your shot are you trying to get rid of us I know I know that that wasn't even planned it's people close to Ben Affleck have never been shy about their feelings towards his relationship with Jennifer Lopez Whispers have always suggested that Jennifer Garner was the better match for him and now with rumors of an intimate divorce swirling it seems Affleck might be rediscovering those old feelings for his ex-wife as fate would have it it looks like Affleck and Garner might just be trying to rebuild their life together and guess who's at the heart of it all none other than Matt Damon who reveals just how Garner saved Affleck from JLo's grip JLo files divorce okay people so the papers are in after long contemplation and there's no going back now Jennifer Lopez is ready to jump ship from her decades old love story with Ben Affleck after just two short years of marriage the once fairy tale Romance is now unraveling faster than anyone could have predicted the star filed for divorce without an attorney a few days ago which marked the couple's second wedding anniversary in her petition Lopez has requested that her name be restored to Jennifer Lynn Lopez dropping the Affleck name alog together Lopez finally files for divorce from Ben Affleck something we all saw coming for a long time but in the end a lot of major twists to this story uh Charles Jennifer Lopez has officially cited irreconcilable differences as the reason for her split from Ben affle claiming that their marriage was over long before the public even caught wind of it she listed their separation date as of April 26 2024 meaning the couple had already called it quits before the breakup rumors began swirling in May and here's where it gets messy with no prenup in place this could lead to a fierce legal battle over their combined fortunes it seemed like Jennifer who's always had an eye on the prize is is gearing up to protect her $400 million Empire but let's not forget this isn't her first rodeo this is her fourth failed marriage and one can't help but wonder if she's more interested in her wealth than in love while Ben might be looking back at what went wrong Jennifer seems more than ready to move on leaving the romance in the dust and setting her sights on keeping what's hers sources have claimed that Ben Affleck has finally come to his senses about his failing marriage to the singer and was well aware that they were headed for a divorce if there was a way to divorce on grounds of temporary insanity he would he feels like the last two years was just a fever dream and he's come to his senses now and understands there's just no way this is going to work while this drama is going on Jennifer Lopez is planning to seek out the spotlight to satisfy her Relentless craving for attention despite their ongoing divorce Lopez plans to walk the red carpet at the Toronto International Film Festival for the premiere of Unstoppable a film produced by Affleck and his best best friend Matt Damon even though affle is steering clear of the event amid their split Lopez is ready to soak up every bit of the spotlight she can though she was cast in the film long before their marriage crumbled it's clear she's not shying away from using the premiere as her own personal stage while Affleck is left picking up the pieces of their shattered relationship director William Goldenberg recently claimed his choice had nothing to do with their marriage she had to be somebody who's lived a life and I felt like Jennifer was one of the few actors who could play the part I think she was right for it and it was also Serendipity that he happened to be married to the person we sort of wanted all along anyway throughout the years it's been clear that Ben Affleck always tried to avoid media attention especially when it came to his private life he practically ran from it like it was the plague but Jennifer Lopez she's been basking in it soaking up every flash bulb and headline like it was her lifeblood and now suddenly her cronies are trying to spin the narrative that Ben couldn't put with all the media attention let's be real she's the one who broadcasted their whole relationship for the world to see it just doesn't add up she's an international Superstar and he acted like it came as a surprise that they would be followed around the thing is it looks like sources on Jennifer's payroll are trying to subtly shift the blame of the failed marriage on Ben alone Jennifer said she was tired of being humiliated by Ben and she waited until the 2-year anniversary because she wanted it to sting but it did not sting him he's been done for for a long time and deep down she knows this he let her have this so she wouldn't look like the villain the timing of the divorce was a big Fu to Ben it's pretty clear as to why Jennifer's people are trying to put the blame on Ben as she wants to be loved by the public and this divorce does not look well on her profile anyway even Jennifer Lopez's Inner Circle had their doubts about her marriage to Ben Affleck and it's not hard to see why Jane Fonda ever the protective friend saw the cracks long before the public did in Lopez's 2022 documentary the greatest love story never told Fonda shared her concerns admitting she was genuinely invested in the relationship success but when headlines started popping up about Affleck looking unhappy Fonda got really scared Lopez might have laughed it off joking that her husband was the internet symbol of the beleaguered man but the truth was clear to those closest to them Ben was miserable with Jennifer and everyone around them could see it however this is my concern like it feels too much like you're trying to prove something instead of just living it you know every other photograph is the two of you kissing the two of you hugging since things are starting to unravel at lightning speed Mindy calling has stepped up to show her support for Ben Affleck at the 2024 Democratic National Convention just as the actor is navigating his messy divorce from Jennifer Lopez the office Alum took a moment to give afflect a special shout out while honoring their shared home state of Massachusetts on stage at the United Cent Center in Chicago she said I couldn't leave here without giving a shout out to the amazing delegation from my home state Massachusetts I love you Massachusetts Everyone is always hating on us but they just don't get it Go Boston Red Sox go Jason Tatum Ben Affleck hang in there fans are right beside Ben in this one they claim that Jennifer filed for a divorce because she couldn't get Ben to Ben to her will do not forget soon after the wedding while Ben was away she sold off his Priceless motorcycle collection to Ben that collection was priceless and a passion of his who does that she's lucky to be alive no one messes with a man's hobby especially one like Ben had what a massive control freak Jay is puts that low in the J low Matt Damon had a bad feeling Matt Damon has always had a sick sense when it comes to his best friend Ben Affleck especially when it involves matters of the heart from the moment Ben rekindled his romance with Jennifer Lopez Matt had a bad feeling about it according to insiders Matt tried to warn Ben that history might repeat itself he was there to help Ben pick up the pieces after their first split and he feared that Ben was heading down the same rocky road again despite their deep bond in Ben's admiration for Matt's long stable marriage to Luciana barazo it seems Ben didn't take his best friend's advice to heart and now he is facing the music of his actions an Insider revealed Matt tried to warn Ben when he got back together with JLo that this could happen Matt was there to help Ben get it together after their first split and he felt like this would happen again as things started falling apart Matt told Ben that he supports whatever Choice he makes but he wants him to jump in and focus on his work Matt has had a successful marriage for years and Ben has always been in awe of this Ben spent so much time focusing on JLo's projects just like he did the first time around he told Ben what has she ever done for your career well when everyone was hyping Up benifer 2.0 it really looks like Jennifer was indeed basking in the attention if you don't remember what she said while announcing their rekindle romance listen to this we're older now we're smarter we have more experience we're at different places in our lives we have kids now and we have to be very conscious of those things it's a beautiful outcome that this has happened in this way at this time in our lives where we can really appreciate and celebrate each other and respect each other we always did but we have even more of an appreciation because we know that life can take you in different directions now if you reanalyze the documentary greatest love story never told Ben himself admitted that he was skeptical of the relationship from the very beginning but despite the odds he wanted to give Jennifer a chance and now we know those initial concerns were well founded leading to the tumultuous end that many Saw coming getting back together I said listen one of the things I don't want is a relationship on social media then I realized it's not a fair thing to ask it's like you're going to marry a boat captain and you go well I don't want the water we're trying to learn to compromise there is no doubt that Matt Damon and Ben Affleck's Bond runs deep but Damon recently touched on a significant difference between their lives while Damon has been happily married since 2005 Affleck's relationships with Jennifer Lopez Jennifer Garner and now Lopez again have been under the media's magnifying glass Damon admitted in an interview with radio times podcast while promoting his film The instigators alongside Ben's brother Casey Affleck that he can't imagine dealing with such Relentless scrutiny fans believe that this was a really deep dig at Ben and Lopez's relationship I can't imagine living under that kind of scrutiny it's been like that for 25 years and we've had parallel careers in a lot of ways and so I'm fortunate to have been kind of excused from that part of Fame and if that wasn't enough he directly compared his peaceful home life to Ben's chaotic one that magazine culture was so huge 25 years ago they kind of ignored me right like I'm a guy who's married it's so boring what would sell those things were Scandal and S and all that stuff that people would read and as long as you didn't do any of that stuff it wasn't really worth their time to wait to take your picture and so I ended up kind of getting left alone Jennifer Garner saves the show well Jennifer Lopez seemed to bask in the chaos of Ben Affleck struggles turning his lowest moments into headline fodder Jennifer Garner quietly took on the role of the real hero you see Garner was the one who stepped in when things got rough when Affleck's relapse became came tabloid news Garner showed up face down the press and got him to rehab Yes you heard that right so in case you might not know Ben has had a drinking problem that dates back to his early days in the industry back in 2017 Ben himself revealed that he completed his alcohol treatment due to the support of his friends and family especially his then wife Garner I have completed treatment for alcohol addiction something I've dealt with in the past and will continue to confront I want to live life to the fullest and be the best father I can be I'm lucky to have the love of my family and friends including my co-parent Jen who has supported me and cared for our kids as I've done the work I set out to do this was the first of many steps being taken towards a positive recovery amid rumors that Jennifer Lopez is stepping away from her marriage with Ben Affleck concerns are growing that Ben might relapse due to the emotional toll fans fear that the trauma of the separation could push him back into Old Habits however Jennifer Garner hasn't left him to fend for himself despite their past she's been actively visiting him at his Brentwood home keeping a close eye on his well-being and making sure he stays on track during this tough time it's very stressful for her and also devastating for her to have to Stage an intervention in the middle of an afternoon pretty much in public but this was a crisis situation while Garner has started to be a rock for Ben it looks like her current partner is unhappy with the arrangement you see despite the time she's spending possibly trying to help Affleck fix his marriage with Lopez Garner has moved on in her own romantic life she is dating a businessman named John Miller according to Daily Mail which reported that Miller has advised Garner that it's not her responsibility to help fix Affleck's marriage to Lopez a source reported he cares deeply for Ben and sympathizes with what he's going through with Jennifer but that doesn't mean Jen should be the one to fix her ex-husband's issues with his current wife that makes no sense to anyone Jen is such a caring and wonderful woman and mother and there is nothing but a deep friendship and bond between her and Ben Jon wants nothing more than for Ben to be okay but it isn't his girlfriend's responsibility to play babysitter for him that is for Ben to figure out on his own and for his wife to handle it isn't Jen's responsibility and he has told her this now before you label Garner as a jealous ex know that Jennifer Garner is reportedly rallying behind her ex-husband Ben Affleck urging him to work on his marriage with Jennifer Lopez despite swirling divorce rumors according to a source Garner is all in on the idea of fully backing the relationship and hoping that affle finds happiness anyway it was Jennifer's birthday a few days ago and you see Jenny From the Block star pulled out all the stops for her extravagant Brigden theme birthday party in the Hamptons in New York where she dressed up as Queen Charlotte for the day looking Regal however the King was conveniently absent from the celebration fans speculated that this might be Jennifer's Way of confirming the split now Ben's absence was not the only thing that signified troubled in Paradise Jennifer even shared a tear-jerking post on social media that apparently mirrored her broken heart she said I really do have the best most amazing fans in the world I could never express how moved I am or how incredibly blessed I feel to have all of you be a part of my life thank you so very much it's hard to believe we have spent all this time together it's funny as I sit here contemplating the most extraordinary journey I still feel like the same girl starting out so full of energy and bravado so ready to take on the whole world on the outside and yet so tender fragile and sometimes frightened but always full of love on the inside while Jen was celebrating her lavish birthday Ben had his eyes locked on a bachelor pad it emerged the Academy Award winner closed escrow on a new $2.5 million estate in the Oceanside Enclave just one day after his rumored estranged wife marked her birthday according to reports the home has five bedrooms and six bathrooms with breakfast and dining areas as well as a separate family room Den walk-in closets media room Powder Room guest house and more amenities typical of a multi-million doll house and Ben's decision to own a house so soon after he put Jennifer's love house on the market is Making Waves in the Hollywood Community sources close to Jennifer claimed that she was very hurt by Ben's decision Ben's decision to move into his own home is the final insult JLo had been holding on to hope that there could be a Reconciliation if they were to spend some time apart but this is like a stab in the heart fans believe that it was Jennifer's problem from the start as she did not compromise on anything during their marriage and when Ben has decided to move on she is spreading rumors about her heartache Jen has to play the victim it's her narcissism it pushed her uphill no one likes her because she doesn't listen that's one of her problems she thinks she's right all the time no compromise with her another added JLo needs to learn to keep things private she likes everything of hers to be public she saw it coming she knows Ben likes his life private and that's one of the reasons why they broke up the first time around she needs to work things out with herself low her arrogance attitude and way too bossy that's all for today we hope you liked that video and if you did be sure to like And subscribe for more videos just like this