Judge Mathis Reveals WHY Wife Filed Divorce After 40 Years of Marriage | Janice Hylton #judgemathis

good morning cousin so we know that judge Mattis if you saw my other video has spoken out he has revealed why his wife went and F for divorce now in the video you know I said hold up judge when the man asks you did you cheat you didn't say yes you didn't say no you say well you know when you ignore your wife you you give her you know uh you create you know the ability to H H think something is going on and that you've left her for three weeks judge three weeks she was on the road judge what you was doing on the road for three weeks sir you was a retired judge where was you at for three weeks that you left your wife for three weeks I want to know judge where was you at what was you doing now you know my book The Naked white this situation with between judge matthysse and his beautiful wife Auntie Linda is the perfect example of the naked wife this is a perfect example and it's a perfect example of the naked wife because a wife wife becomes naked when a husband does not cover her she's not covered by her husband so he she have she's the naked wife and this is a perfect example of the naked wife she's uncovered where were you for three weeks so I'm G to play this video again I think I can play the whole video now without interrupting it and I want to know what you think about what the judge is saying I want you to listen carefully about what he said when he was asked is there adultery okay I want you to listen carefully okay here we go hey mats how are you man I'm good how you doing I'm doing all right I want to ask I'm not good rather it's the worst days of my life how about that okay I'm sorry to hear that I want to ask you know with news of the separation how are you holding up not holding up very well I would say to other man maybe I'll be a example for other man cautionary tale don't neglect your wife see how many of airport now flying out as I have for 40 for 25 years my wife has been third serving the community taping my show having fun with friends that's what happens guys never be too busy or never have too much fun beyond your life so I do want to ask know the date of separation is listed back in July 17th has this been coming for some time now or was it something out the blue well ever since we uh start taping here in La I committed to staying home more and being making my wife more more of a priority but as you see I haven't I'm still here on the road doing the same thing and uh in terms of uh going out into another city but it was I was gone for three weeks that's what July 17th meant would you say you two are in a good place right now or able to maintain a friendship or oh yeah we're still in the same house and we're maintaining a friendship and I'm trying to get my wife back trying have to show her that though um hopefully I can show her while we're there together before and hopefully she doesn't complete the process but um I'm changing and hopes that she will I'm get my wife back how about that I just want to eliminate all them rumors too that it's something about a baby or even me uh molesting a child it's none of that I just told you what it is there were also you know kind of rumors of any infidelity did you want to clear that up at all you say it's solely neglect well neglect um can create suspicion certainly and if you're gone as much as I am you have every right to suspect you know you go to work you go serving the community around the country then you go with your guys to sporting events around the country you go to other events except without your wife hanging with you and enjoying herself with you and so yeah she would have a right to suspect infidelity but there was none of that going on that's not the purpose that's not the reason for this okay so that's what talk about because I abely love you happy Sunday good morning um thank you for your love and support thank you for those of you who sub subscribe and uh thanks for the comments so there's a few people in the comments complaining that I am too loud I don't know what you want me to do when I get excited I don't know if you've ever been to a basketball game football game what do you do when you're excited or you something becomes revelatory to you you get excited so instead of complaining block my channel unsubscribe go to another Channel there are lots of people on YouTube that speak in monotone voices I am not one of those people okay so uh so shout out and welcome to all of our new cousins and for those of you that's been sticking with me and love it when I get excited thank you I absolutely love you and adore you so we know this whole judge ma situation is going on she's a perfect example of uh the naked wife now he said ever since they moved to LA he committed to listen to what he said ever since we moved to LA I have committed to making my wife a priority and for years my wife has been number three and she's not number one those are my words the last part is M number one so which tells me that there has been issues before we know judge has been a judge on TV for 25 years he's been taping and he's been busy and she's probably spent a lot of time at home taking care of the kids and now the kids are grown and gone they moved to LA they're doing their own show and she he has committed which means it's an agreement we made we had a conversation and we committed that I am going to begin to make my wife a priority by his own confession he has not done that he has not made his wife as a as a priority here he is your wife is divorcing you but here you are sir on a plane at the airport flying out now some of you say how this is a setup how they gonna know he's at the setup hello this is LA and TMZ do you not know they have people at T at the airport every day waiting for celebrities that's how they met they saw him he's flying out they have TMZ at at the at the airport they have TMZ at the at the the courthouse they have somebody stationed there in the event a celebrity come by they can't record it that's how they know so here he is saying he made a commitment he made a commitment to stay home with his wife and he by his own confession here I am flying out sir you need to cut everything else off and take your wife for a whole year take your wife on a worldwide vacation just you and her spend time together now I was reading some of the comments and some of the comments are like well what is she complaining about him working what she gonna leave him and she probably gonna get half and it's not like she made any Financial contribution excuse me she took care like to so many black women struggle with the black man taking care of him did you not hear his confession earlier before that his wife allowed allowed him to work 15 hours a week I'm sorry what bills can 15 hours a week make while he was in school and going through his law degree getting his law degree how you think they took care of the family she was working she was the teacher she created a Learning Center so yeah she took care of the family while he was trying to get on his feet because well my girlfriend wanted to be a lawyer she could not go to law school because she couldn't work for more than so many hours and she needed to work to take care of herself so she didn't go to law school me too I didn't go to law school I wanted to be a lawyer I didn't go to law school because I had to go to work to take care of me and Lexi and you cannot go to law school and work more more more than a certain amount of hours I think in Jersey you can't work more than 25 hours if I remember correctly so please tell me what kind of family and home you gonna take care of making 15 hours a week so for those of you talking about Auntie Linda didn't invest financially that is not true you don't know their beginning story go listen to their story while he was going through law school we and working 15 hours a week please tell me what kind of family you going to take care of for 15 hours a week by the way Aunt Linda what's up with this belly shirt what's up with this belly shirt belly dress you have come on Auntie Linda come on now we need you to to to to aunti Linda you is too old to be having your little foe out foa come on come on woman uh of uh older woman come on now please don't wear this dress no more with your gut out anyways H people are saying you mean to tell me she's divorcing because it's neglect no no no it is years and by his own confession he just said I committed to making my wife a priority she was not the priority for all these years and I think when you when you start out and yall struggling I you know okay you going to law school you got to spend all this time studying but like my marriage counselor told me and my husband you need to be committed to the marriage and a lot of men are not committed to their marriage y'all is thinking after 39 years 40 years this one's filing for divorce because she's not committed no no no she was committed for 40 years he's not doing his part and for those of you thinking talking about oh you act like your marriage is so perfect like you got all the answers no my marriage is not perfect no I do not have all the answers but what I do know is I have a revelation of marriage do you understand see your marriage is like your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ see God deals in pictures and types and if you under when you read the Bible if you understand pictures and types you can understand certain things Christ is a picture of the church Adam is a picture of Christ Adam is the first a uh uh Christ uh Adam is the first Adam Jesus is the second and final Adam Joseph son of Jacob is the type of Christ David Son of Jesse is a type of Christ and David was also the only man that walked in the three anointing of the Lord Jesus Christ what are the three anointings of the Lord Jesus Christ Prophet priest and King Moses is a type of Christ Egypt is a type of the world the lamb in Exodus chapter 12 is a type of Christ the bread is a type of Christ the body of Christ like when he did the communion this is my body this is my blood it's not the blood it's a type of the blood Jesus is a type of a husband the church is a type of Christ a type of the wife John 3:16 for God so L the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoo believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life there's only three groups of people in this world the Nations the Jews and the church you're either part of the Nations everybody else that's not a Jew is the Nations and you can only be a Jew if you are the Seed of Abraham and then you're the church the church is made up of both Jews and Gentiles or Jews and the Nations and then what did Jesus says if you are in Christ then you are the Seed of Abraham therefore we reap the blessings of Abraham in Exodus chap in Genesis chapter 12 I will bless those who bless you I will curse those who curse you Joseph A a type of the Lord Jesus Christ so your marriage is a type of your relationship and your walk with the Lord Jesus Christ again Jesus is the type of uh represents uh a a husband let me go back up here a husband is a type of Christ the husband is representative of Christ that's why I said husband love your wives like Christ loved the church how did Christ love the church he laid his life down for the world and those who have accepted his gift of Salvation how do you accept the gift of Salvation Romans 12 Roman rans 10:9 if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus Christ believe in your heart God raising from the dead you shall be saved with the mouth Salvage May to righteousness with a heart man believe unto salvation always get those two words mixed up so if your husband is a type of Christ that means ladies this is why it goes so hard for you to choose your husband come up with the characteristics you want for your husband H so husband is a type of Christ the wife is a type of the church and my problem with the black church and a lot of church and people is they put the burden of marriage on the husband on the wife excuse me they put the burden of the marriage on this on on the wife don't think about that Christ is a type uh Jesus husband is a type of Christ Christ came and died for the world those who accept him becomes the church so the responsibility of the church is on Christ not on the church the responsibility of Salvation is on the Lord Jesus Christ and so a lot of husbands are treating their wives like like Adam did in the garden I'm writing a book on that and so when the husband and wife type of Christ in church come together your marriage is a type of your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ you get up every morning I'm a morning person I'm up at 4:30 5 o'clock in the morning I'm praying I'm reading my Bible I'm seeking the Lord and guess what when I do not take time out of my day to spend time with the Lord somewhere somehow I mess up something happened the other day I got scammed the other day at a book fair about a book fair I'm setting up and I I was so upset when I realized that you know what the holy spirit said to me you did not acknowledge me and I thought about it I thought about I did not acknowledge God in doing this and saying I'm going to attend the book for I didn't acknowledge Him I was like yeah I'm coming yeah oh much and I was scammed out of some money and when I realized it I went to praying because I'm pissed I'm like this is my money we are tis we believe God and the Lord said I you did not acknowledge me he said acknowledge me in all of your ways you didn't pray about it you didn't ask me you didn't seek me because it's books I'm excited it's something local I'm I'm go it's a local book fear there's nothing wrong with going to a local book fear where you don't know that because sin lies at the door the enemy is seeking to sift us so we acknowledge God in all that we do so your marriage ma'am sir is like your faith and your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ you need to spend time with your with the Lord Jesus Christ you need to spend time with your mate you need to pray you need to talk to your wife you need to read the Bible you need to tell her every day you love her she needs to tell you she loves you your marriage is like your body what happens if you do not take care of your body I told y'all I went to the dentist for my six Monon checkup and she gonna tell me I have a cavity I couldn't believe it I almost fell off the chair I said what me a cavity she said I can't remember she's looking back through my records she said I can't remember the last time you had a cavity and I'm like I don't understand how I have a cavity now at 46 years old I said I was just here in November you want to tell me a cavity developed since November six months later she say your teeth is are very tight and compacted not compacted I said as much as I floss y'all if I eat a bag of chps I have to floss everybody at my job know that all like Janus is always flossing cuz I'm just so I ecd ICD OCD with my teeth but but the way I figure all these years I've never had a cavity in in years I had a cavity since I was in my 20s I had my first cavities when I was 24 so she she's flipping back like I can't tell the last time you had a cavity I'm thinking maybe I need to go get a second opinion but do you know how because I kept going every six months I'm in the dentist me and my my family every six months every six months we're going same thing with your body think about your marriage like your body you go to the doctor every year you're supposed to go get your blood work even Lil Michael every year and they tell you your organs are functioning your liver is functioning your kidneys are good when I went to do my physical there were some things I need to work on she said do these things come back six months let's run your blood I run my blood she said H whatever you're doing keep doing it my iron was low I started taking them iron pills started eating them the the peanut butter start drinking my my my shakes I needed to lose 15 pounds I lost 10B so sometimes y'all that you have to check in on your marriage you can't just leave your marriage leave your wife and feel like before we're married that's that's no no no it's not enough huh ladies how many how many of you come on and testify you was fine but one day you're doing your self-examination and you feel a lump in your breast do you ignore the lump no you do not you go to the doctor huh how many times have we heard stories of people who went to the doctor find out they had cancer and they have so so much long to live your marriage is just like your your your your body I have a friend coworker who prostate cancer runs in his family he said it has killed every man in my family and he has to go to the doctor every six months that's how bad it is in his family every six months he has to go and the doctor have to check his prostate so your marriage is like your health your marriage is like your teeth check on your teeth he for the your marriage is like your eyes those of you ladies those of us in our late 40s you might realize stuff is getting a little blurry I went to my doctor God bless his all Dr conim he went on to Glory I told I said doc I can't read the the the the Bible the tiny print Bible it's I can't see it it's getting hard to see and he has he had glasses he said Miss Thomson I wear glasses and I can't read it and she say you're a woman you're in your 40s this was about two years ago you're in your 40s you have to get readers and I'm like readers child I'm 2020 I ain't get no readers and this year I went to the Dollar Store and I saw some readers for a dollar and I put it on and the light came on I said oh my God I could see you cannot leave your body to rot you can't leave your marriage to rot it's you think of your marriage in about everything you do when you get up every day you take your shower you brush your teeth you use your mouth mouthwash your flaw you wash your face you eat you drink water it's the same way with your marriage you must check in on your marriage you must spend time with your marriage you must take time for your marriage you can't just get married and and and and ignore your wife ignore your husband oh he married now that's all it takes no you have to spend time my husband and I we don't leave our children we don't believe well I don't my husband always you want leave babysit I said no I don't leave my kids this little boy has never been to a babysitter but you know what me and my husband do we we do Day dates we do Day dates while Lex is at Day program Lou Michael is at school we know they're Sav to the best of our ability we we have Adam and Eve day we take the day and we spend the whole day doing the do while the kids are at school walking around naked running around naked and doing the do all in the house through the house on the couch in the living room on the guest on the stairs in the kitchen wherever because we're checking in on our marriage and sometime he said baby go to work let's go go to work late go go have breakfast and we'll drop the little Michael off and we'll just go sit have breakfast and then I get to work by 10:52 or he'll say baby I'mma pick you up for lunch let's have lunch well my lunch is only 45 minutes and he'll pick me up we'll eat lunch and and he'll drop me back off and time for me to clock in you must check in on your marriage if it's 11 o'clock in the day and I don't my husband don't text me I'm calling him like hey what's up because usually by when he drops me off I'm busy I'm working I'm I'm like and usually he'll say I'm checking in to see how's things going how's your day going and so on and so and sometimes I'll do the same you must check in on your marriage you cannot just get married and leave your marriage up and you're not paying attention to your wife and you're not spending time with your wife and you made a commitment judge Manis you said you made a a commitment sir to make her priority and you have not and this is why she went to fall for divorce so all of y'all that was saying it's her fault well after 40 years after after for how could she leave him she's going back to the streets no he's going back to the streets because he's hanging out with his friend he's making his job a priority he's making everybody else a priority but his wife after 40 years and y'all think she should just sit there and take it absolutely not think about it ladies you find a lump in your breast you gonna sit there in 2024 and take it you gonna just sit there and ignore it yes we know some people will but most of us if you find a lump in your breast you're not going to to take it this is why they tell us every month when you're on your period check your breasts while you're in your shower check your breath huh I have to remind my daughter she's a special needs young lady every month check your breast Lexie check the breast check it and and she has felt something before I've had to take her to the doctor to get a a a a uh what what they call it um not a mamogram something else the other one think about it man if you start peeing and there's blood in your pee are you just gonna sit down and take it some men will do it but most men will go see a doctor and tell the doc doc there is p in my there is blood in my pee so how do you expect a wife to sit down and take it when her husband who made a commitment to make her priority after 40 years is not making her prayer she's supposed to sit down and take it absolutely not I commend Auntie Linda for going to to file for divorce and he didn't say no about the do you said well you know tell me what y'all think comment below I absolutely love it thank you for those of you who picking up my books I my books did really really good last month those of you are picking up my books and showing me love and support I love you guys I appreciate you guys you know I always say pick up the books for me you could show me love and 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him for more than a week after about a week we come in mik where you at where you at we done been when my my husband had his uh uh pos position where he was traveling a lot we would always go to the conference and I'm talking 200,000 people conference by week two we getting on the plane where you at at Texas wherever we coming M we coming okay I can't you can't be without you can't you have to check in that's like going two weeks without praying and talking to the Lord I love you let me know what you think again show me love and support with my books available on Amazon talk to you later bye