Kelly Stafford declines to offer advice to Taylor Swift and Britney Mahomes on navigating life as an NFL wife Kelly Stafford wife of Los Angeles Rams quarterback Matthew Stafford has weighed in on the lives of Taylor Swift and Britney Mahomes significant others of NFL players Travis Kelce and Patrick Mahomes despite her extensive experience in the NFL World Kelly Stafford believes that both Swift and Mahomes have their lives and relationships well under control in a recent conversation with E news Stafford was asked whether she would offer advice to the famous Duo her response was that she felt Swift and momes were pretty settled in their personal lives and did not require any additional guidance Stafford who has been married to Matthew Stafford for over a decade and has navigated the pressures of being a football wife expressed confidence in the stability of their relationships reflecting on her own Journey Kelly Stafford shared insights about the challenges of managing public expectations maintaining one's personal identity you're going to have everyone telling you what you should look like what you should say and not say Stafford noted if you start listening to all that noise you lose the values and everything that makes you who you are and makes you the person your husband fell in love with Stafford now 35 is the mother of four children Sawyer and Chandler both seven Hunter six and Tyler four she recounted her own experience with external pressures and advised against conforming to others expectations don't try to become the person that everybody else wants you to become she cautioned that's what I did and I lost who I was it affects everything from your personality to your appearance Taylor Swift known for her resilience amid intense public scrutiny as one of the world's most famous pop stars seems to be managing her relationship with Travis Kelsey well the couple recently enjoyed time together at Swifts Road Island Mansion where they were joined by Britney and Patrick Mahomes for a high-profile Gathering Britney momes who announced in July that she and Patrick are expecting their third child has received significant praise from her husband Patrick Mahomes described Britney as a Hall of Fame mom on Logan Paul's impulsive podcast emphasizing her role in managing their family life and supporting his football career both Swift and momes continue to handle the complexities of their public and private lives with apparent Grace underscoring their ability to balance personal SA satisfaction with the demands of their high-profile relationships