no I like I like what's your background I'm Cuban and Native and white it kind of makes things spicy like you you get into an argument and then you're like man I'm so glad you're just not boring yeah I used to be it's you're if you're dating don't let me win arguments like let's just go back and forth if you date a Latina you're just it's going to be toxic I realized that's my last I think I think we just uh fun we like to have fun yeah