Bachelorette Jen Tran speaks out after split from Devon Strater he regretted getting engaged he didn't want to fight for the relationship anymore Jen said Jen Tran is speaking out on her split from Devon ster on The Bachelorette season 21 finale on Tuesday September 3rd Jen and Devon got engaged in Hawaii but the couple later revealed that they had broken up Jen opened up about what happened in their relationship on the after the final row special revealing Devon's feelings changed almost immediately as soon as we had left Hawaii things were just different she told host Jesse Palmer it kind of just felt like he was pulling away all the promises that he had made to me wanting to move somewhere together and wanting to have this future planned out and wanting to see each other all the time Jen explained that she stopped receiving calls and texts from Devon and grew confused then one night she got a call from her then fiance he called me and he basically broke off the engagement she said he said he didn't love me anymore feel the same way and felt like something had been off since the second thing he proposed he regretted getting engaged trying to understand the pressures getting engaged on a reality show can bring Jen said she offered to work on things with Devon I said letun just be together we don't have to be engaged I want a life with you I don't need a ring on my finger she recalled telling him he was checked out it was wasn't what he wanted anymore and I've been fighting for the relationship trying to do everything I can to empathize with him and try to make things work he didn't want to go to couples counseling he didn't want to fight for the relationship anymore after that call which Jen said lasted 15 minutes she claimed Devon has not responded to her reaching out we were full-blown engaged and in love and now you're ignoring my text like I mean nothing to you she said as fans may recall Jen was left with her three suitors Devon Marcus and Jonathan for the fantasy sweets at the time she expressed her feelings for Devon were strong saying being with him just feels right and that he makes me feel loved and just supported I want to be in love with Devon and I think I'm really close to that the physician assistant student added to the cameras Marcus on the other hand went into his overnight date confessing I'm not to the point of being in love yet you deserve someone that is sure about you Marcus said to Jen I don't know if I'm putting pressure on myself because of how fast this process has been or how quickly the end of this process is approaching but it's been hard for me to get to a point where I feel comfortable saying that I'm in love Jen however needed to be honest about her feelings which were stronger than Marcus during the overnight dates she told him I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I am in love with you she and Jonathan also seemed to be in a good place heading into the fantasy suites throwing out the L word as well I felt like I could spend the rest of my life with this guy Jen said about the creative director I have no doubt in my mind that tomorrow I can wake up and say hey this is my person I'm so in love he then said to the cameras ultimately Jonathan was sent home and Marcus and Devon were left competing for the final row which as fans now know went to Devon Jen previously talked to people about her time on the dating show where she was the leading lady with 25 suit is vying for a proposal at the end of the season discussing whether she would be tuning in Jen was quick to respond are you kidding me I'm not going to watch the best two months of my life of course I am she said in a July issue I am so excited for it to Premiere I feel like it's so weird that this crazy Journey happened and I am just so excited to be able to watch it back after the men tell all special where Jen took the opportunity to to stand up for herself against Sam M after she felt he disrespected her during their dates she told people that she learned a lot from the experience and even teased how she was doing ahead of the finale I've grown so much through the Journey that I'm such a different person now than I was in it she explained I have a new sense of confidence and this empowerment and so watching it all back there were definitely certain situations with the guys that I was very enlightened by after the fact and I was like oh now I can pinpoint exactly what wrong here and why I felt this way or why I didn't stand up for myself I don't have any regrets with the whole journey she later added I think everything played out the way exactly it was supposed to play out and I'm so happy about it along the way all the mistakes I made and stuff like that I own those and I'm happy to learn from them and so I don't have regrets about anything