so ready to come out on the other side of this from this pain from this heartache from this uh feeling of hopelessness um that is just part of a 2 and 1 half minute very raw and emotional video that J Hayes posted about her divorce and split up from her wife Mandy so as y'all know D and Mandy both announced on Friday with the same statement here that they are splitting up um um d a quick look it looks like she's scrubbed all of her videos that have Mandy in it Mandy hasn't posted anything and she also hasn't scrubbed any videos that have da in it so um da just says that she's going to you know get through this the best way that she can she really a support you know appreciates her fans and supporters I get so invested in people because I just I care I care here