Julianne how says Brooks L marriage allowed her to be a little girl and heal from trauma Julianne how is providing a glimpse into the Dynamics of her past marriage with ex-husband Brooks L while appearing on the Tuesday August 27 episode of The Jamie Kern Lima show ho 36 explained that her relationship with Le 41 was the greatest thing that could have happened to me at that time of my life what I needed at that time was to reconnect with my 10-year-old self she explained to host Jamie Kern Lima what did I need at 10 I really needed safety and almost like a father figure to come in and be that grounding force of stability according to Ho Le provided such a beautiful foundation for me to be a little girl and as that was the dynamic of our relationship I was able to start that healing when I started going through all that journey I started being more of a woman fortunately lch gave her a little girl feeling as well as stability and a stable man to be there during the August 15 episode of the jimie kar Lima show the Dancing with the Stars co-host opened up about her childhood trauma and revealed she was sexually abused at four years old by a neighbor though said she blocked out the experience for years but she was able to come face to face with the trauma through her recent healing Journey I forgot about it then other things happened later in my childhood and at about 15 and I started sharing those things but I forgot about the neighbor thing how explained during the part one episode it wasn't until I started doing the work recently that's why I block out from 10 to 15 because I had completely disassociated from that happening though and Le broke up in July 2020 after 3 years of marriage US Weekly confirmed that the duo divorce course was finalized in June 2022 when looking back on the love story though still has positive things to say about that chapter of her life we are important special people in each other's lives and we shared a really powerful season together she said on the August 27 podcast episode I know that I also brought a lot of things to his life that he shared with me also so it has definitely felt like a mutual respect and love and period of growth for both both of us while some parts of the relationship were challenging though firmly believes that all things happen for a reason I think everything has happened the way that it should have happened she added the growth and the learning and the evolution is what it needed to be I'm grateful for it