y why don't you tell us a story oh tell us about Arthur Banbridge Charles I do not want to tell that story it's so sad oh I've read about him his mother's family made a fortune out of real estate that's him well we went out a few times you know nothing Chic but all very fun and well one night we were all set for this date at T on the green only Chuck and I got into this very deep and long conversation about about the T and the ich ching and all this completely fascinating stuff and Arthur shows up and he's he's just so possessive and and I didn't want to hurt his feelings I knew he'd be furious if if he knew that Chuck was there so I had him hide in the closet and Arthur got down on one knee just like in the movies and asked me to marry him he bought this ring from Tiffany's and well he kept going on about children in Connecticut can you imagine could you no no but