and where do you come into it Ma like with the this is me right here I'm right here I'm on the side uh I usually I just wait for the morning time to happen it takes about an hour and a half they talk everything out uh there's always a reserve there's always a reserve somehow it's just non-stop you know one time I figured I'm going to pay attention and I just lost the train of thought yeah he doesn't pay attention but he always delivers he always delivers but somehow he's always just in you know he the little clip they showed that was actual reality is trying to focus pay attention on what we have to do and it's just nonstop he's also always in the middle of the two of us yeah and the two of us are always like this try to talk around him okay but if we were next to each other that would be I mean that be a disaster absolutely you're the referee you say them up with me basically